Understated Luxury – Carsten & Philip

The result was an evening where fashion, architecture and personal touches blended together to create an experience that felt both natural and unforgettable, with a sense of modern minimalism that we all love.

They met online in January 2020. Philip was living in Munich, Carsten was commuting from Berlin, and their first date took place at a small Italian restaurant, which has since become a recurring ritual. Every year, they return to the same table to mark the start of their shared story. Philip initially considered cancelling that evening. Instead, he made his way through the city to meet Carsten – a decision that changed everything.

The proposal came a few years later during a winter weekend in South Tyrol. Surrounded by the Dolomites and far from the hustle and bustle of everyday life, the moment turned out exactly as they’d hoped: private, sincere and with absolutely no audience.

“It was a nerve-wracking moment, and I knew almost straight away that I wanted to pop the question,” says Carsten.

Afterwards, they opened a bottle of champagne whilst the family was already waiting for the news. Sharing the news with their loved ones made the moment even more special.

Fashion was a natural part of the story.

Right from the start, they knew they wanted to wear something that would feel just as right in twenty years’ time as it did that evening. The choice naturally fell on Ralph Lauren Purple Label.

Both wore made-to-measure tuxedos with white dinner jackets, black silk trousers and patent leather shoes from Church’s. Wearing identical outfits was a conscious decision – graphic, confident and symbolic.

“We wanted something classic, but with attitude. An outfit that still feels just right when we look back at the photos.”

A venue with its own character

They chose the Bayerisches Nationalmuseum in Munich, where they became the first couple to get married in the museum’s halls. The high ceilings, the monumental architecture and the winter light created an atmosphere that made the room feel just as much a part of the story as the guests themselves.

The ceremony was led by Philip’s two best friends, which gave the whole occasion a personal touch amidst the grand surroundings.