Men’s style for the wedding – Andreas Weinås’s top tips for the groom and guests

Finding the right outfit for a wedding is an art in itself. Dressing appropriately isn’t about being snobbish, following rules for the sake of it, or trying to impress others. According to style expert Andreas Weinås, it’s above all about clarity, respect and ensuring that everyone feels comfortable.

One of Andreas’s most important pieces of advice for bridal couples is to be clear about the dress code. Avoid vague phrases such as ‘summery’, ‘casual chic’ or ‘festive’. These can mean completely different things to different guests. Do you want a classic dress code? Set out a well-established dress code that’s easy to understand and look up online. If, on the other hand, you’d like pastel-coloured linen, white suits or a more specific look, state exactly that. The point of a dress code is for guests to feel included, not unsure.

What does ‘jacket’ actually mean?

A common misconception is that a ‘jacket’ dress code means a mismatched jacket and trousers. It doesn’t. In a wedding context, ‘jacket’ still means a suit, but in a slightly more relaxed interpretation than a dark suit. It can be dark blue, grey, beige or lighter shades, particularly for summer weddings. However, the overall look should still feel well thought-out and smart.

The fit is the most important thing of all

According to Andreas, there’s no brand in the world that can save a poor fit. Whether the suit is exclusive, vintage, made-to-measure or bought straight off the rack, the fit is crucial.

His advice is simple: don’t buy a suit that’s too small with the idea that you’ll “lose weight before the wedding”. Choose the right size and take it to a tailor for alterations. Small adjustments such as sleeve length, trouser length and the back can transform the whole look.

Invest in shoes you can wear again

Shoes are one of the details Andreas believes you shouldn’t compromise too much on. A pair of well-made leather shoes elevates the whole look and can last for many years if looked after properly.

Black shoes are recommended for a dark blue or grey suit. With lighter-coloured suits, there’s more scope – dark brown, for example. Trainers? No, not if the dress code is a jacket, a dark suit or a tuxedo.

A tailcoat is evening wear

Andreas loves a tuxedo, but is clear that historically it is an evening garment. It is best suited to an evening wedding or the reception following the ceremony. A black bow tie is required with a tuxedo, preferably one you’ve tied yourself. It doesn’t have to be perfect; on the contrary, it’s precisely that slight imperfection that makes it elegant and personal.

A white tuxedo jacket can look incredibly smart, particularly in warmer climates, but as a guest you should be cautious. It risks drawing too much attention away from the bride and groom.

Keep it classic and well thought-out in the details

With a dark suit and jacket, a tie is the most appropriate choice, and a white shirt is always a safe bet that works with everything. If you want a more relaxed look without a tie, try unbuttoning two buttons instead of one for a more balanced look. When it comes to the overall look, the details are crucial – socks are a must with a suit (going sockless is best left for holidays) and ideally in the same shade as your trousers for a more cohesive silhouette. Also avoid style shortcuts such as a black shirt with a tuxedo; classic style always wins in the long run.

Think long-term, both in style and planning

A well-chosen suit should not only work on your wedding day but also long afterwards. A dark blue or dark grey suit is one of the most versatile items of clothing you can own and will suit many occasions to come. Therefore, view the purchase as an investment. Also, make sure you start well in advance – especially if you’re having something made to measure – and allow several weeks for both production and alterations. One final tip: wear the suit a few times before the wedding so it feels natural. On the big day, your outfit should be the last thing you need to worry about.

Andreas’s most important style advice – wedding style isn’t about making the biggest statement. It’s about balance, fit and small, subtle details.

As Andreas himself puts it: the most inspiring people are often those who whisper with their style rather than shout. And perhaps that’s precisely where the key lies. A really good wedding look shouldn’t dominate the room; it should complement the person wearing it.

Quick style tips from Andreas Weinås

1. Be clear about the
   dress code. Avoid vague wording. Choose a classic dress code or be specific about what you mean.
2. Understand the basics
   A ‘kavaj’ means a suit (not just a jacket) and classic choices such as a dark blue suit, white shirt and tie always work.
3. Fit is key
   The right size plus alterations by a tailor beat everything else. Expect to spend a little extra on alterations.
4. Invest in the right shoes
   Classic leather shoes are a worthwhile investment. Black for a dark suit, offering more flexibility with lighter suits – but avoid trainers.
5. Stick to the
   dress code A tailcoat is for the evening and requires a bow tie. Match details such as your shirt, socks and accessories to the occasion.
6. The details make the whole
   look: socks to match your suit (preferably tone-on-tone), a discreet watch, and avoid ‘half-measures’ such as leaving a top button undone.
7. Let the bride and groom take centre
   stage. Dress smartly, but not too flashily.
8. Plan well in advance
   Buy or order at least 2–3 months beforehand and try on the outfit in advance.
9. Think long-term
   : Choose garments you can wear again and build your wardrobe around classics.
10. Find your style within the
    guidelines: adapt your look to suit your personality, but respect the occasion.

We hope these tips have given you more confidence when choosing what to wear to a wedding and following the correct dress code for men.

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